So...technically...I'm on the market. I say this enthusiastically, because categorizing myself as an aspiring wife carries the undertone that I feel it's necessary to be married to have a fulfilling life. Actually, I feel it would be an enhancement to the life I'm already so proud of. That being cleared up, there's the issue of the D-word.
The ever-evolving, ever-awkward, ever-magical dating world has its perks and nightmares. However you choose to tackle it--be it online, just plain blind, sports-playing, speed-dating, or becoming a regular stool pigeon bar fixture, there are some things to remember...
Dating is a discovery phase, and it's important to treat it like an interview of sorts. It has to be a good fit for both of you in order to become a full-fledged relationship. You date to determine fit, and sometimes, the fit just ain't right. Women are notorious for taking on the responsibility of making things work for both parties in a relationship, so remembering that you can only control yourself is key.
I get much inspiration and reality kicks in the face from one of my favorite relationship blogs: Baggage Reclaim.
Here's some helpful tidbits to remember from one of the posts on this blog:
"Unfortunately, we don't all date for the same reasons...my motivation + your motivation may not bring about an ideal situation...
LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP + LOOKING TO PASS TIME = YOU BEING IN LIMBO WHILE THEY FLIP FLAP
LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP + LOOKING FOR A SHAG = YOU BEING USED FOR A SHAG & BEING AN ‘ACCIDENTAL BOOTY CALL’
LOOKING FOR A SHAG + LOOKING FOR A SHAG = GOOD TIMES (but if you change your mind and start looking for a relationship, you’ll become an accidental booty call)"
So wade into that dating pool wisely this weekend, single gals. Make sure it's a fit, and that your motivations are the same before diving in. Read the inspiration behind this post here: http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/why-dating-is-a-discovery-phase-to-work-out-if-you-want-a-relationship/
Sarah
Weekend WISE: Dating and the single gal
Friday, June 7, 2013
Make it a Great One!
If you are on the East Coast, stay dry!! We hope, regardless of the weather, that everyone has a lovely weekend!
Megan and Sarah
Do you love yourself? Well you should!
This was advice last week from my 3 year old, yes, my wise beyond her years 3 year old. I am so glad she is picking up these concepts early on in life and I am so hopeful that she carries this confidence and security with her into her teen and young adult years. What random words of wisdom do you hear from your kiddos???
Megan
Dining room in progress
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
We have started painting the dining room Urbane Bronze by Sherwin Williams. It is dark and I love it! By the look of things, you would think we are creating a kill room (for the Dexter fans out there!)
Will post completion photos once we get there!
Megan
Old Navy: A go-to for toddler cuteness
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
I am not a big fan of Old Navy for Women's clothes. I find the material to be thin and sort of cheap, but their toddler section is often times spot on. The quality seems to be much better and I find myself always asking, "Why can't I find this in adult sizes???" Here are a few items I recently picked up for my little lady. They are running (as always) a killer sale!!
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| Denim Vest? Yes, please! |
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| I love the classic black and white instead of pink and purple everywhere |
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| Seriously!?! |
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| I have a TOTAL bathing suit obsession---this will make number 7 for the season...need to stop! |
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| Could this be any cuter??? |
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| Love the Ombre! |
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| A summer must have! |
Follow-up: Threshold
As I mentioned last week, Target has an awesome collection called Threshold. I love it!
The pic below is from the foyer in my house.
The grey tray, large piece of white coral and the glass container are all from Target! I think each piece was under $30 bucks too! The shells and the starfish are from a recent vacation and the mercury glass candle holder is from Ballard Designs (long ago).
What great things have you found at Target???
Megan
Obsession: Notecards
Monday, June 3, 2013
Soooo, I have many obsessions and they all happen to be pretty darn random. I am sure there will be posts about Trader Joe's (don't get me started--super obsessed!).
So I have a family member who has to buy razors every time he goes to the store. Let's just say, he has an insane back log of razors. I have the same issue with notecards. My favorite spot for notecards is Target (surprised?). I can't go there without looking at them and buying. I think I am becoming the "cat lady" of notecards! Here are my latest find---adorable, or what?!?
I love dropping an unexpected hand written note in the mail. I think in the world of text messages and email, it is just so nice to take it back old school.
Megan
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