So...technically...I'm on the market.  I say this enthusiastically, because categorizing myself as an aspiring wife carries the undertone that I feel it's necessary to be married to have a fulfilling life.  Actually, I feel it would be an enhancement to the life I'm already so proud of.  That being cleared up, there's the issue of the D-word.
The ever-evolving, ever-awkward, ever-magical dating world has its perks and nightmares.  However you choose to tackle it--be it online, just plain blind, sports-playing, speed-dating, or becoming a regular stool pigeon bar fixture, there are some things to remember...
Dating is a discovery phase, and it's important to treat it like an interview of sorts.  It has to be a good fit for both of you in order to become a full-fledged relationship.  You date to determine fit, and sometimes, the fit just ain't right.  Women are notorious for taking on the responsibility of making things work for both parties in a relationship, so remembering that you can only control yourself is key.
I get much inspiration and reality kicks in the face from one of my favorite relationship blogs:  Baggage Reclaim.

Here's some helpful tidbits to remember from one of the posts on this blog:

"Unfortunately, we don't all date for the same reasons...my motivation + your motivation may not bring about an ideal situation...

LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP + LOOKING TO PASS TIME = YOU BEING IN LIMBO   WHILE THEY FLIP FLAP

LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP + LOOKING FOR A SHAG = YOU BEING USED FOR A SHAG & BEING AN ‘ACCIDENTAL BOOTY CALL’

LOOKING FOR A SHAG + LOOKING FOR A SHAG = GOOD TIMES (but if you change your mind and start looking for a relationship, you’ll become an accidental booty call)"

So wade into that dating pool wisely this weekend, single gals.  Make sure it's a fit, and that your motivations are the same before diving in.  Read the inspiration behind this post here:  http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/why-dating-is-a-discovery-phase-to-work-out-if-you-want-a-relationship/

Sarah